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I'm kind of talking about maybe possibly DMing and official Spookeasy Lounge D&D game and 1) I'm stoked but also 2) I will need to dream up a brand new campaign specific to the Spookeasy and about THAT I'm SUPER stoked, but also nervous about finding the time
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RT @cavaticat: I propose we start using the phrase "Venusian" to describe any day that feels longer than a year and has gone completely bac…
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The Borg turn everyone into them. The Dominion turn themselves into everyone. Idk where I'm going with this, but it's interesting. #StarTrek
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I want a Star Trek/Stargate crossover where it turns out the Conspiracy aliens were Goa'uld
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I happened to win a ticket to see @wicked_musical last week for tonight's performance. It's a really bittersweet thing for me because seeing this musical live was one of Erica's dreams. One she was never able to achieve. I've arrived an hour and a half early to just reflect and hopefully wash all the feelings out before the show starts where I will undoubtedly be inundated by the feelings it's intended to produce. She's never really gone. So she's here to see this with me tonight. I told my friends when I won that I don't think ghosts need tickets. Her seat is around my neck.
Anyway. We're here to see the wizard. #fuckcancer
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If you're thinking it looks like he's getting all up in my business... You would be correct.
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I opened the door and found these goodies tied to the handle. Santa came for the puppies! If I didn't love my apartment complex before, I certainly do now. ☺️
#merrychristmas
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But if Henry Cavill isn't Geralt, and Henry Cavill isn't Superman, then wHO'S FLYING THE PLANE?
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Robbie Coltrane didn't mean as much to me as he did to some, but his connection to the Harry Potter universe makes him inextricably linked to Erica and, as such, this news gives me the sads all over again. If she were still here we would be planning to make homemade butterbeer in his honor.
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I just dumped a load of her clothes into a donation box. There's still a lot I haven't gone through yet. Most of it will end up being tossed. The whole process gives me anxiety. Just doing this one load is choking me up a little. But she would be the first one to say "just throw it all out, I don't need it anymore."
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This lil floofer thinks it's super okay and normal to take a nap on my shoes.
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A million thank-yous to @jaymelee_tats for re-doing my old #StarTrek tattoo and for this brand new tattoo in memory of @dizzyizzy2828.
The placement of the Izzy tattoo represents where we found her first lumps. Please test yourself for lumps early and often. It was too late for her, but it could save your life.
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Forever close to my heart in an hourglass that no longer turns. ❤️
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You may or may not know that my wife, Erica Beaudry, has been fighting against breast cancer since her diagnosis in 2019. Today that fight has ended. About three weeks ago we made the decision to enter her into hospice, leave our house which we couldn't afford on a single income, and move in with her aunt. After some complications in the hospital, she and I finally made it to her aunt's house Thursday night. Friday I picked up her kids from their father's place for their regular weekend visit and we had that day to look after her, visit with her, and care for her. She passed peacefully in her sleep Saturday morning at around 7:30. While this was something we were expecting, it was not something we expected to happen so quickly. Three weeks ago the doctor gave us a three-month timeline. Then again, her entire cancer journey has been about the cancer defying our efforts and expectations.
She did not want a funeral; she did not want a memorial; she was adamant in her wishes not to have anyone organize any kind of event that would have people crying for her and regurgitating platitudes to those she left behind. Please instead go enjoy one of her favorite meals in her honor: Mac and cheese (the crappy kind from a box, not baked), chicken nuggets (must have ketchup), French fries (ketchup or ranch), wings (especially from Hattrick's with lots of ranch dip), mashed or baked potatoes (butter, salt, and lots of sour cream), and/or tacos (again, LOTS of sour cream). Do this and swap happy memories about her with loved ones so that she can listen in while she haunts you and realize exactly how loved she was.